<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Therealmonicaray]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Real Monica Ray]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 01:50:42 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.therealmonicaray.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Title: Grieving Who They Were to Me]]></title><description><![CDATA[Grief doesn’t always come from daily closeness. Sometimes it comes from history, from who someone once was to you; and the quiet understanding that even distance never erased their impact.]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/title-grieving-who-they-were-to-me</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69dc4c6f4760d48e5e910911</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 13:30:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_434eef4529f043eb91a801fcba58c227~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_512,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wise in Your Own Eyes? ]]></title><description><![CDATA[When placed side by side, 1 Corinthians 1:19 and John 16 reveal a powerful truth: God overturns what the world considers wisdom. While worldly thinking ties joy to comfort, control, and visible success, Jesus teaches something entirely different. In John 16, He prepares His disciples for grief, confusion, and even failure; yet promises that their sorrow will turn into joy. What appears foolish to the world becomes the very means through which God reveals truth, exposing the limits of human...]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/wise-in-your-own-eyes</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c1fbc236a1fdc193bcea85</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 12:00:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_56b69514194c4d45bf424cd9dca9bccb~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_992,h_496,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Don't Worry]]></title><description><![CDATA[Worry often comes from trying to control what was never yours to manage. You start thinking ahead, overanalyzing outcomes, and carrying tomorrow before it arrives. But Matthew 6:34 reminds us not to worry about tomorrow. Today already has enough. Peace lives in the present; not in the “what if.]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/don-t-worry</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c052af6e2d813924905121</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 12:00:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_456a0201a3d44a529bf679bb106425b1~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_512,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Quarreling Is A Choice]]></title><description><![CDATA[Quarreling is a choice, not a requirement. You can see conflict and still decide not to participate. You don’t owe every misunderstanding your energy. 2 Timothy 2:23–24 warns us to avoid foolish arguments because they produce strife. The servant of the Lord must not quarrel. Peace grows when you choose to step away instead of stepping in.]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/quarreling-is-a-choice</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c0511f6e2d813924904b9b</guid><pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2026 12:00:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_ee629c940e5040deab6d7d18d7b7c1ef~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_512,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[HUSH!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Not every situation requires your voice. Some things are revealed just to test your discipline, not your response. You don’t have to correct everything you hear. Proverbs 17:27 reminds us that a person of understanding remains calm. Peace is preserved in restraint. When you choose silence over reaction, you allow wisdom; not emotion; to lead.]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/_hush</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c04eaa6e2d81392490440b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 12:00:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_c9d9264a6371454eaccc547049b1d3c9~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_512,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Mind Your OWN Affairs]]></title><description><![CDATA[Peace begins when you stop picking up what was never handed to you. Whatever wasn’t said to you directly, wasn’t said for you to carry. Too often, we insert ourselves into tension, trying to resolve what God never assigned us to fix. 1 Thessalonians 4:11 calls us to “study to be quiet” and mind our own affairs. There is a grace in staying in your lane. When you resist the urge to engage in every conversation, you protect your spirit from unnecessary weight.]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/mind-your-own-affairs</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c04d5d6e2d8139249040fe</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2026 12:00:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_4584c017d1f84e66bfad76ec1d3398b9~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_512,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Keys To Peace]]></title><description><![CDATA[Whatever isn’t said to me directly… wasn’t said. That’s not avoidance; it’s alignment. Too often, we disrupt our own peace trying to interpret whispers and respond to things that were never actually placed in our hands. If they had the authority to stop anything in your life, they would; so in the meantime, they talk.  But talk is powerless when you understand your covering. Isaiah 54:17 reminds us that no weapon formed against you shall prosper; so even if it forms, it won’t succeed. That...]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/the-keys-to-peace</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c0419d0160b7de3151bb6a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 21:23:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_967faefc8b0b48c88c7704308ab2e1b2~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Glory Is Coming]]></title><description><![CDATA[The suffering is great… but the glory is greater. Sometimes it’s hard to see “greater” when the suffering feels endless; when it stretches longer than your strength and louder than your hope. But the Word has never failed. If the suffering is present, then the promise is too. And if the suffering can happen… the greater can too.]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/glory-is-coming</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69bf32f36e2d8139248d9c0c</guid><pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2026 12:01:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_a2ba0480bef145d28246bd9f14e53bab~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_512,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Last Word]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a world full of noise, opinions, and trending “truths,” it’s easy to confuse cultural standards with the conviction of the Holy Spirit. The Last Word  exists to give you short, powerful blurbs of encouragement rooted in God’s Word; so you can pause, reflect, and let Scripture be the ultimate authority in your thoughts and decisions. It may be the last thing you read today, but it’s never the last word. When culture and conviction collide, pause, pray, and turn to the Word for clarity. Each...]]></description><link>https://www.therealmonicaray.com/post/the-last-word</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69bcca2506e9acd4d41dc109</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 04:19:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3029d8_dd5b9f9ceb7845c480d1883a87646c74~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Mo </dc:creator></item></channel></rss>